“Learning and teaching should not stand on opposite banks of a river and just watch the water flow by: instead they should embark together on a journey down the river. Through an active, reciprocal exchange, teaching can strengthen learning how to learn.” Loris Malaguzzi 1
The idea behind the whole ELC and Bialik Children’s Centre immersing themselves into one concept ‘Reciprocity’ is because of a willingness to create relationships and connections amongst the staff; to develop an even stronger community where everyone has a sense of belonging.
But what do we mean when we speak about reciprocity? Reciprocity is often understood as an exchange—a giving and receiving between two people. Within our ELC, however, we understand it as something much deeper. It is a dynamic, ongoing process in which relationships create opportunities for mutual influence, new understandings and shared growth. It asks us to recognise that learning does not move in one direction, from teacher to child, or from one educator to another. Rather, learning is continually shaped and reshaped through our encounters with others.
Reciprocity requires us to be willing to listen, to be open to being changed by what we hear, and to acknowledge that our own understanding is never complete. It asks us to move beyond the assumption that we are the ones who hold the knowledge and instead recognise the knowledge, experiences and perspectives that each person brings. In this sense, reciprocity is not simply about being connected; it is about what happens within those connections.
For children, reciprocity is evident when an idea offered by one child becomes the starting point for another child’s thinking; when a question changes the direction of an investigation; or when children negotiate, challenge and extend one another’s theories. Educators are part of this same process. The questions children ask, the unexpected directions their thinking takes, and the theories they construct challenge us to reconsider our assumptions and make new pedagogical decisions. In turn, our listening, questions, materials and responses offer children opportunities to revisit and extend their ideas. The investigations which took place under the concept of ‘reciprocity‘ were different in each room.
Reciprocity also lives within our professional relationships. When educators share documentation, engage in dialogue and welcome differing interpretations, each person contributes to a collective understanding that no individual could have reached alone. We learn not only from one another’s knowledge, but also from our uncertainties, our questions and our willingness to think differently. Families, too, bring valuable knowledge of their children, enriching our understandings and reminding us that learning extends beyond the classroom.
Our professional learning and planning are a complex and interactive process in which teacher reflection and collaboration is viewed with the utmost importance. Through observation, analysis and reflection the teachers constantly consider why they did what they did. For us research is considered a strategy, a response to curiosity and doubt. The research is part of our everyday practice. It provides the possibility for critical thinking and constructing new knowledge.
In fact, the process is parallel to the way that we see our children learning. Our seminar meetings held fortnightly give opportunity for teachers to share their documentation with others and to reflect, question and learn from the different perspectives of other teachers in the group. This shared documentation is the foundation for the planning and reflecting that occurs at these meetings.
“Intellectual conflict is understood as the engine of all growth in Reggio. Therefore, teachers seek to bring out, rather than suppress, conflicts of viewpoints between children. Similarly, among themselves, they readily accept disagreement and expect extended discussion and constructive criticism: this is seen as the best way to advance”.2
Each classroom began by listening deeply—to children’s conversations, their drawings, their questions, and their fascinations. Documentation played a central role—not as a product, but as a process of reflection and relationship. Panels, conversations, and visual displays became invitations for others to join the inquiry. The walls, floors, and shared spaces echoed the children’s questions, hypotheses, and moments of discovery.
Carla Rinaldi proposes the concept of “the normality of research”3 which defines research as an attitude and an approach to everyday living in schools and in life; a way of thinking for ourselves and thinking with others, a way of relating with others, with the world around us and with life.
What emerged from this collective journey was a deepened sense of connection—among classrooms, between families and educators, and most importantly, within the children themselves. They began to see themselves not just as learners, but as contributors to a shared dialogue of meaning.
The articles in our journal are not investigations in their entirety but rather small vignettes, part of the process. Each investigation is documented through the recording of discussions and reflections by the children and their teachers, through photographs and other ‘languages’. This documentation is fundamental to our work with our children. It makes their thinking, often very complex, visible and open to evaluation and interpretation.
Through the lens of ’Reciprocity‘ we are reminded that every child, every educator and every family brings a unique world of experiences, ideas and possibilities. When we slow down, listen deeply and make space for the many languages through which people express their thinking, we begin to recognise that learning is not something we simply deliver or measure. It is something we create together. Each encounter offers the possibility of seeing something differently and discovering what we might not have discovered alone.
- Malaguzzi, L. (1998). The hundred languages of children: The Reggio Emilia approach—Advanced reflections (2nd ed.), edited by C. Edwards, L. Gandini, and G. Forman.
- Edwards, C. (1998). Partner, nurturer, and guide: The role of the teacher. In C. Edwards, L. Gandini, & G. Forman (Eds.), The hundred languages of children: The Reggio Emilia approach—Advanced reflections (2nd ed.). Ablex Publishing.
- Rinaldi, C. (2005). In dialogue with Reggio Emilia: Listening, researching and learning. Routledge.
Stay tuned for the 2026 exhibition exploring ‘reciprocity’.
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